We spend so much of our lives chasing safety. We want guarantees, control, and predictability; in business, in relationships, even in our own inner world. But what if safety, as we imagine it, is an illusion? That’s the question I’ve been exploring this week. We try to make life predictable so we can feel safe. … Read more
A few days ago, during a meditation, I found myself in a place that felt so peaceful, it almost startled me. It wasn’t a physical space; not a beach, not a forest, not even the comfort of my favourite chair. It was an inner place. Quiet, spacious, warm. And in that space, there was nothing … Read more
This week, my coach gave me a simple task: track how I spend my time. What I found was confronting.Every moment of my day was accounted for. There was no slack, no contingency, no pause. And when I did stop, it was because I’d run out of energy, not because I’d consciously chosen to rest. … Read more
Life trains us early to protect ourselves. From childhood, we develop strategies—masks, habits, and roles—that help us navigate the world. Over time, these protective layers can feel like the sum total of who we are. People-pleasing, overworking, avoidance, and perfectionism are all forms of armour, designed to keep us safe and acceptable. And yet, beneath … Read more
The first two lines of my SHINE script read: I am the Queen of Self-Mastery. I am grounded in my power. When I came back to those words recently, I had one of those moments that made me pause. I had forgotten I’d updated my script with that second line. Then, just a few days … Read more