How to trust yourself

Always trust your inner voice

Updated October 2025 I read the message. My heart started pounding, I felt slightly sweaty, a knot was building in my stomach. Nauseous. I felt like a child again, caught doing something I shouldn’t. Except I wasn’t. My crime? I had made a choice that someone else disapproved of. I was angry, embarrassed, scared – … Read more

What is your inner critic saying to you?

I have an inner critic. We all do. My inner critic can be really harsh (and disapproving like the cat in the picture!!) and if I listen to her, can give me a really hard time and pile on the guilt. However, she is also really helpful for helping me see where there might be … Read more

When did you last ask for help?

I am rubbish at asking for help. You are more likely to find me stacking the dishwasher by crashing the cutlery or forcing the plates in or spending hours researching how to do a task than to ask for help.  I am also bad at receiving help! If offered help by my partner I am … Read more

A Christmas CV

One of the Christmas traditions we have with our kids is looking at the Christmas lights and trees around our town (and beyond if we’re travelling). There’s something about the way the lights twinkle and shine. I love seeing how people use the same lights in different ways to get completely unique effects.  My friend … Read more