If slowing down makes you feel restless or uneasy, it’s not a lack of discipline. It’s a nervous system response. This blog explores why rest can feel unsafe and how self-mastery helps rebuild internal safety.
Hyper-independence often hides in plain sight. It looks like strength. Capability. Self-reliance. The ability to cope without help. For many high-functioning women, independence becomes a defining trait, something to be proud of. I am all for strong, capable, self-reliant women; however, over time, for some, that independence can quietly become a protective strategy, where needing … Read more
Capability is often praised, but when it becomes armour, it can quietly exhaust us. This blog explores how competence turns into protection, why high-functioning women are especially prone to this pattern, and how self-mastery helps restore choice, softness, and balance.
Protective strategies are often misunderstood. They’re talked about as bad habits to get rid of, patterns to fix, or proof that something is wrong with us. Especially for high-functioning women, protective strategies can feel like a personal failing: Why can’t I just stop doing this? Why do I keep reacting this way? But protective strategies … Read more
There’s a moment many of us recognise, even if we don’t always talk about it. You’ve had an idea, it feels exciting, spacious and full of possibility.You think about it. Journal about it. Maybe even speak it aloud. And then… you decide to take action. That’s the moment everything changes. Suddenly, the idea that felt … Read more